In our society exist a very strong and very popular opinion that not a single man can turn down the opportunity to share a bed with inexperienced and innocent girl. But life is slightly different from these representations and the interviews have shown that almost a third part of modern men would like to share a bed with an experienced woman and not a virgin. Furthermore, the fifth part of men who had to share a bed with a virgin had some serious difficulties with the process of defloration. And what our ancestors from different times thought about virginity? As it turned out, in France at the beginning of the sixteenth century was legalized a right of seniors to sleep with their vassals’ wifes before vassals themselves on their wedding nights and that not a single vassal couldn’t do anything about it. But one of the most interesting parts is that this very unusual to our minds law was perceived by people of that times with a joy and happiness and vassals even tried to show one\'s gratitude to their seniors for their hard job with precious gifts. Alberto Gomes, who is a famous specialist about the Middle Ages, thinks that this phenomenon can be explained without any difficulties by superstitions and fears which were very popular among Western nations of those times. Almost in every European country of those dark times existed very popular opinion that only sorcerers and all different kinds of “specialists” should carry out the process of defloration without being cursed by demons or Gods. In Scandinavian tribes girls were deflowered by Magi after sacrifices to the Goddess of love Freya. And if the sexual act was not accompanied by rupture of the hymen then sacrifice was considered unaccepted and after a little bit more time this ritual was carried out again. In case if one more time the ritual was not performed successfully the girl was considered to be rejected by Gods and was doomed to live the rest of her life alone and planned marriage had to be aborted. In the Middle Ages these responsibilities of Magi and sorcerers were given to feudal lords for which the wedding night with wifes of their vassals was not only an inalienable right but also a sacred obligation which were descend from fathers to sons. It is known from some of the documents that Droit du seigneur (the right of the first night) had not only feudal lords but also monks from some of the certain monasteries. The ministers of the Council of Lyon were often invited by the peasants who were living around that area for an act of defloration and monks of one of the monasteries near Piedmont had to reach the local bishop with a request to relieve them from the right of the first night. At the same time, there were not any feudal lords or monks on tropical islands and in Papuan tribe Aranda dearest friends of husband had to carry the whole burden of process of defloration of newlywed wife. Right before the wedding husband asked two or three of his best friends to abduct the bride and take her into the near forest and deflower her with a help of a stone knife after that they conducted a ritual sexual act and then they returned the bride to her parents. After the return newlywed wife could have been visited for a sexual act by any men from a tribe and only after every men done it the newlywed could start to celebrate the wedding. It is should be noted that similar morals were popular in many different parts of our planet. It is known from the descriptions of ceremonies on Marquesas Islands which were described by the French explorer Jacque Marsiro that while performing the sexual act the bride had to lie down right in front of the groom and put her head on his knees. After that the groom made a sign to every man who came to the wedding and they one after another conducted a sexual act with a bride and they were singing and dancing while doing that. Australian aborigines, tribes of Central Africa and also the tribe Dani in Papua had the same kind of traditions. In contrast, in some peoples of Siberia it was a tradition to invite for a process of defloration strangers passing by the settlement on who as it was believed were cursed for spilling in the blood of woman. It is also should be noticed and considered that in some nations the process of defloration has to be conducted by experience women who could use for this purpose different kinds of resources. Healers of one of the central African tribes used for process of defloration a sharp needle made of bone of an animal. Wherein, the age that was considered appropriate for process of defloration could vary in a very large range. For example, on Philippines parents invited sorcerers for process of defloration of their daughter at the age of ten and in African tribe Maasai girls were deflowered at the age of five. Some nations thought that responsibility for the process of defloration should be on the shoulders of parents of the girl. In Peru only one and a half centuries ago the process of defloration had to be conducted on street in public by the mother of a girl and in Malayan tribes Sakai and Batek people of which live on the Sumatra Island this responsibility were completely on the girl’s father’s shoulders. But there are some more interesting records. The Polish sexologist S. Kinessa in his notes described that in some tribes in India, Chile and Brazil a concept of “virginity” isn’t exist. Turns out that the mothers in those tribes are so careful about their daughters’ hygiene that their hymen is breaking at a very young age. In case when the girl remains virgin before marriage it is considered that she was raised a slattern who is not paying enough attention to hygiene. But it is all memories of the distant past which however can shed some light on why many of modern men try not to deal with virgins. And many of the psychoanalysts and sexologists think that the most common reason of hostility to the virginity is lying in subconscious reluctance of breaking the ancient taboo which is connected to blood. Our ancestors had believed that the soul of a man is in his blood and any hemorrhage by every means is a partial loss of your soul and a man who experienced even a small blood loss is cursed. Thus, in a regular modern man who feels uncertainty before the wedding night, just awakening the ancient prohibition on a blood loss which also affects the process of defloration. One of the most common reasons of Parthenophobia (the fear of virgins) is considered to be the fear before the unknown that every person has. Any obscurity can lead to a danger for a person and Sigmund Freud thought that the process of defloration is a quintessence of new feelings and undertakings which cause in a pioneers very clear and understandable uncertainty. But the main reason for the man’s fear is the anxiety to cause involuntary pain the liked woman and to turn her against him. Sigmund Freud thought that at the moment when man is overflowed by subconscious fear that woman mentally castrates him for the pain the he was reason of. Freud’s followers thought that because of this fear our ancestors passed the responsibility of the process of defloration on the shoulders of sorcerers, healers and strangers, so after that they could go on the beaten track. In our time a man just cannot allow himself to pass the process of defloration of his bride on someone else’s shoulders and have to do it personally. Therefore, just like his ancestors a man should take the procedure very serious and stick to some very important and fundamental rules. It is necessary to remember that the best way to alleviate the suffering of the process of defloration is foreplay which would be some sort of anesthesia because of which the first time will be remembered only from the good side. It also should be noticed that during the first sexual act most part of the women do not experience vaginal orgasm so because of that men should pay more attention to caresses the clitoris area. It would be better to penetrate the hymen with your finger during foreplay allowing the further process be way more simplified.
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Process itself would be better to start after the girl’s vagina becomes wet and increases in size. It also would be better to penetrate it with fast and confident push. Before penetrating penis into vagina it would be better to bend girl’s knees because of that breaking hymen will not be as painful as it would be without doing so. For man would be better to try to be with girl as gentle as possible and say to her all sorts of nice and sweet things. It also will not be a mistake to turn some sweet slow music which will be helpful in distraction girl from her fears and will help to relax. Men must remember that some kind of thoughtless actions can cause a serious psychological trauma so avoid any demonstrations of roughness. During the process of defloration man should act vigorously and confident because any sorts of indecisions or uncertainty in yourself can turn first sexual act into a brutal and unpleasant torture. After the end of sexual act would be better for a man to hug a woman and tell her as much nice and sweet stuff as possible so she will be confident that she is not indifferent to a man. It would be even better to organize a small dinner with candles to celebrate such a very significant event in woman’s life. Whatever it was, but conducted various surveys and interviews with different women can help to describe some sort of an idealized portrait of an irreproachable deflorator. He apparently has to be a man at the age of thirty or thirty-five years together with a big experience in sexual sphere and also a good looking. He also should be very independent and at the same time he should be considered to belong of the psychological “man-father” type which means that he very attentively and thoughtfully cares about women. He also should be very modest, well-mannered and has high intellectual abilities. Apart from that, most of women think that this man should be a sexual altruist, which means that he in the first place thinks about women and about their sexual pleasure and please her and only after her he thinks about himself. And one last but not the least quality of an irreproachable deflorator is sense of humor which could extinguish any sorts of emerging conflicts in incipience. Nude virgins girls! Photos and videos with petite virgins pussys! Fresh virgins here show her nude young body and small virgins pussys!